finally... our cottage

after all the trouble, berkat kesabaran, our lil cottage tinggal nk cleaning kali ke 3 dan pastu dah ready to move in.... here...have a peek

our lil porch light... facing older housing phase



the autogate motor



the gate really helpful for me...

that's the gate...come have a look at our house dari luar pulak.

front view.....

that open door is the mainentrance

besor nyer sliding ni....jenuh nak buat langsir...hahaha

from side view...inilah awning yang mengecewakan tu

haaa....mari tgk tumbuh tumbuhan pulak.....

inilah longgokan tanah yang sime darby nk ratakan tanah sekeliling kompaun rumah...nampak tak on the side...taman permainan yang akan menjadi port iris lepak

anak pisang import dari Sarawak....

ini pun anak pisang..species ni kt sarawak jer jumpe..org semenanjung tak tau pun...

ini namanya pokok limau kasturi...hahaha

murid-murid...ini pokok ubi kayu....

amacam? ok tak? now lets peek in my house....



haiya...kantoi brg2 depan rumah....ini actually feature wall utk depan ni...ini belum sempat cat lagi...will be paint in deep lavender...




inilah view mainentrance dr pandangan dalam...hehehe....



ini dining area

living area.....

dry kitchen

ruang tingkat bawah

ini dinding dining area yang akan di wall paperkan...

my lovely dry kitchen....

dapur impian aku....kos nya adalah lebih mahal dari total buat grill, plaster ceiling, etc.

my wet kitchen yang dulunya penuh dugaan

haaa....cukuplah tu....tgk atas pulak ek....

stairway ni lampu pilihan hubby ku .... boleh tahan....selalu jer aku under estimate pilihan dia....this time terbukti..boleh tahan...heheheh

family area....sinilah tmpt golek2 tgk tv sekeluarga...heheheh

i really love the wall.....ni warna pilihan hubbyku lagi..... wall lite & langsir..i lah pilih kan...

ini balconi dari bilik master bedroom aku



sini kot nak letak iris punyer bed



sini feature wall bilik nih.... cat guna nippon spotless coliision red....

the tingkap curve yang menyebabkan aku sakit kepala nak carik rail langsir dia..rupenyer.....berlambak jual..ciss.....

ini bilik iris dan adik2 perempuan dia nanti....hehehe...kantoi mop hahaha

ini nanti...adik2 lelaki iris bolehlah duduk....hehehehe me choose this bubble blue....soothing jer colournyer....

ape pun...painting job ada lagi dua tempat nak settle, feature wall mainentrance & bilik tetamu kat bawah...bilik tetamu tu i nak cat warna yellow grass... then nak settlekan kemaskan kesan2 cat tercalit-calit tu...hahjahaha...

apa pun..my biggest  thanks to mak yang sanggup jahit semua langsirku..... mak...i love u... and also to my sparing partner...teman gaduh, teman bincang, teman merajuk, teman mengadu...shoulder to cry on.... thanks Allah....though its kindda difficult in the beginning tapi Alhamdulillah...finally.

kerana nak tolong melayu

seperti telah i tulis sblm ni...u tau kan..our cottage is on the making... we all dah sign contract dgn this contractor melalui seorang lelaki bernama "bongok". then..we all  dah byr total sebanyak 10k ...78% drpd jumlah kontract. kontract including grill for my double storey conner unit..also include 10 x 6 feet ajiya awning, plaster ceiling, complete with downlight, wiring, hacking & looping...autogate, wiring for aircond, hacking for water heater, etc. and also not to forget, my wet kitchen worktop. and job to be completed in 20 days..and the due date is on 13th mei 2011....u count now...skrg dh berapa haribulan dan bulan berapa.... then...............argghh...penatlah...sambung nanti ek... i nak call my hubby for updates of our house.

my updates till mei

hi there... out cottage is in the making....changing the awnings, installing interior fittings such as the kitchen cabinets for dry kitchen, kitchen tops for wetkitchens... wiring hacking & loopings...ceilings.... lightings, fans... painting few feature walls. exterior.... autogates, awning..outdoor lightings...etc.... oh my...so far i've spend approx bout rm39040.... kosong purse gua... hahaha.... much more to come..i've to delay the concrete fence...well...thinking of doing something better for the fence...so have to menabunglaaaa...... last week...something tragic and scary happens...our contractor which are now are likely like our frend too....was being jerk by a group of chinese contractor...accusing our contractor to 'curi line' becoz they claim that area to be their area...they pull off the banner and throw it away... dame u chinese! what eva...but i'm so looking forward for rm10k rebate check from sime darby....hehehe... tomorrow we are leaving for terengganu...emmmm hope my lil honeyberry will be good girl along the journey....i'm eyeing the durians..of coz!!! owh....we bought baju raya too....its my hubby's choice!!! say what? its ORANGE!!!!! bright one though!!!!

tarrrraaaaa!!!!! hows the new look????

though...i know curently its only me following myself.....i still want my blog to look so me......hahahaha...... well.....still learning ......

Toddlers: Are tantrums a sign of affection?

The bond between you and your child grows stronger in the toddler years, even if he spends much of the time stomping and screaming. In fact, those fits are a testament to your closeness.

Tantrums from toddlers are a bit like lover's quarrels, according to Adam. "They're only capable of that meltdown because they love you so much," she says. In other words, your child couldn't be so disappointed or angry unless he trusted you deeply in the first place.

Even when you're incredibly frustrated with your toddler, don't worry that you'll stop loving him. Again, you have biology on your side. British researchers recently scanned the brains of 20 mothers who were looking at pictures of their own young children. The part of the brain that controls pleasure — the same part involved in romantic love — lit up like a slot machine hitting the jackpot. The part that judges and criticizes, however, practically shut down.

Mom Jen Harrington certainly has trouble seeing any shortcomings in her son, even now that he's a big 5-year-old. He was one of those angelic, no-hassle kids that other parents envy. ("When he was a baby, we would sometimes joke that we should poke him just to see if he could cry," she says.) But she and her husband are equally crazy about their daughter, Abigail, a crier and screamer who's as strong-willed as her brother is mellow.

"Before she was born, I was worried that I couldn't love another child as much as I love Josh," Harrington says. "But I do."

Your toddler has a rich range of emotions. (If you spend 15 minutes with him in a grocery store, there's a good chance you'll see every one of them.) But he still doesn't understand the concept of "love" as you know it. Toddlers often throw the word around loosely: They may say they love you, but they'll also say they love their books or their toys or their third-favorite cereal. (Remember, these are the same people who like to call all four-legged animals "doggies.")

Even so, you don't have to worry about your place in your toddler's universe. He's keenly aware that you're important, and when he gets hurt or wants to cuddle, he doesn't run to his toys or the cereal cupboard. "Children want help from the people they trust the most," says Braungart-Rieker, the University of Notre Dame psychologist.

Pengajaran

Pengajaran

Aku ada cinta.

Pernah aku tercari cinta dimana ia.

Pernah aku nikmati keindahan dunia…

sambil ku cari adakah ini cinta.

Ketamakan atau pencarian yang belum kesampaian.

Nafsu atau keegoan seorang wanita

Yang mendesak aku pergi mencari sebuah lubuk

yang bukan untuk ku renangi.

Kunikmati setiap bibit keindahan pencarian ku itu.

Namun ternyata cinta itu lebih nikmat.

Mengapa aku terus mencari.

Bukankah aku sudah ada cinta?

Mengapa setelah ku cari yang lain

Cinta itu juga yang aku mahukan.

Cinta itu sudah lama kutemui

Hanya mataku tertutup rapat,

Hatiku tidak mengerti

Jiwaku liar mencari lagi

Nafsuku gagah menguasai.

Aku tersungkur seketika.

Nyata Tuhan masih menyayangiku.

mahu aku terus memiliki cinta itu.

Pertukaran yang ku harus korbankan

demi untuk terus memiliki cinta itu,

Nilainya nyawa dan keinginan.

Namun aku bersyukur.

Kerana tuhan masih mahu aku miliki cinta itu.

Tatkala aku benar- benar pasti cinta itu memang cinta yang kucari-cari,

Tuhan mencubaku dengan dugaan yang membuatku faham,

Ya…

Memang itulah namanya cinta.

Aku masih ada cinta.

respect ur language...

aku benci betul org malaysia yang sibuk cakap english pd malaysianjugak dan sibuk buat slang...aku tak kisah cakap omputeh sbb baik utk kita...tapi tak usahlah slang mcm tu.....kalau mmg betul slang nyer tak per...karang macam scottich pun ada,,,,sat lagi mcm west england pun ada...jap2 tu mcm latin america pun ada....hahahaa....buat malu jer...aku baru lepas sekolahkan budak airasia punyer call centre sbb dia cakap english buat2 slang...better ko cakap sebijik2 lagi bagus...org paham, air liur ko pun tak tersembur....

manusia suka buat sesuatu yg kononnya impres org..tapi kalau do it perfectly or correctly tak per gak...nih....memalukan jer....bukan aper...aku yang susah nak paham binatang aper dia cube sebut.....

"ok madam, your itenary has been sent to your e-mail..."
tapi bunyi nyer mcm....
"wokeyyyyhhhh meiiiiieeeeam......ourrrrrrr iterrrrrrneaaarrrrriiiieSSSS has bean seanted to ourrrrrrrr eai-maieeellll....."

and that boy is a malay!!!! hahahah....shame on you....cakap melayu sudah..aku pun press butang 2 utk BM tadi...haiyaaaaaa.......

respect ur language..be what u are..not someone else....